Body like your relationship is going nowhere? Have you been frustrated with not knowing what he’ s thinking? It could be your problem. You are sabotaging your relationship simply by never getting off the treadmill of sameness.
What’ s even more frustrating is, you don’ to even know what you are doing wrong. It is a common mistake made by women who are unhappy in their relationships.
Don’ t do the same points over and over again. If you do, you can’ to expect things to change. You don’ t have to be the perfect woman for the man to notice you. Doing those things like cooking his favorite meal or washing his clothes are fine.
You do your best to help keep the house clean. You never let the laundry washing get out of hand, and you cook regularly.
You’ ve worked hard on the relationship and you feel like he should too.
Why isn’ t this guy realizing you?
Believe it or not, the solution is really simple. If you want attention from your man, you only have to do one little thing… tell him! Yep, that’ s i9000 it.
Don’ to have an attitude at dinner when you’ re at a sports club eating chicken wings, and you wished Italian. Believe me, he will become clueless why you’ re crazy.
Your man requested you where you wanted to go for supper and you said… let me guess:
“ I don’ to know. Where ever you want”.
Tell your man exactly what you desire in a nice, but direct way. “ I really want to go to Maggiano’ s for dinner tonight. What do you think? ” This works better and will get you Italian ninety nine percent of the time.
A guy will do anything to please you if you tell him in a way he can understand. Don’ to make him guess. So if you desire his attention, tell him.
He wants nothing but for the connection to go smoothly, and with as little energy as possible on his part. The much less drama there is, the better.
So if you ask for 30 minutes of their attention, he will give it to you. Exactly why? Because he wants to make you happy then get back to doing whatever he has been doing.
Keeping every thing going smoothly. No drama here!
What’ s the particular lesson here? Don’ t sabotage your own relationship. In order to get a man’ s attention, you need to do something in a different way than what you’ ve already been doing. Tell your man what you want in the clear, firm, and pleasant way.
Let me warn you though… never, ever, ever, ever, use the words QUALITY TIME!
Nothing makes a man cringe over those two dreaded words. You should be direct and ask for what you want.